There is one thing I don’t like: people agreeing to please for whatever ulterior motives in life.
For example, in order to win the affection and love of an emotionally insane significant other, the girl would agree with the boy constantly. The boy even told her that she is crazy, that he has no feelings for her, that she needs to stop calling him and that she should return the dating gifts to him. The girl dumped his items into the backyard of the boy’s parents. That’s how stupid and disrespectful this Chinese is towards us Filipinos.
I’ve learned from the boy that she wouldn’t stop agreeing with him to the point of many heated arguments. They even fought during their vacation in Hawaii where he intended to propose to her. She didn’t crack a smile to me when I picked the both of them up from their “fun”. In summary, the game is over: he married her anyway despite MANY red flags from family and friends. That’s how stupid he is towards, not only his OLD family, but to himself.
People who don’t disagree are living in denial. They are being dishonest with themselves and lying to others. They are living in fear of rejection too. They know how to play the “good guy” so as to not offend sensitive people. Disagreeing means to set your boundaries against the insane, mischievous and perverts: who ironically think they are always right, by the way.
And that my friend is tonight’s dose of reality. Agree only in writing and in front of witnesses and have your thoughts and intentions notarized, too. Anything else is fool-hardy.
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