This morning while eating breakfast, my mind wandered and came across a comparison between the boy and his paternal relatives – ALL of them! I noticed that they handle stress by being, well verbally abusive. I wonder if this condition has something to do with undiagnosed Tourette’s disease.
For example, when old granny is reported to not have many more months to live, the boy called up one day and proclaimed that he would visit her everyday. As per his wife, he has not done such as thing. As a matter of fact the paternal side tends to be verbally convincing, but their actions do NOT match what is really in their hearts. Does that make them bad? Maybe.
In another example, when Maldeath has been confronted with the truth as to why they dumped old granny in the nursing home, she falsely accused and blamed an elderly, disabled relative for her shortcomings. I would call that being verbally abusive. Does that make the nutball any better for passing out the Eucharist at St. Anne’s church?
But I noticed a common pattern. First, these two would go off the wall. But when the accused throws back their anxiety back into their faces in person or into their ear holes via phone, the message is being processed inside their thick skull. Second, they would come back to the object of their projection and ask for forgiveness. These people are forgiven.
The ones that fail redemption are the rest. Those include other paternal nutballs: cousin Shill, auntie Malouse, uncle Dead and the rest from Daly City, Hayward, Chicago, etc.
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