First, get a life. Stop wasting your time behind the computer because you are not going to find your “prince charming” online. Chatting about nonsense is not necessary. Spend your time outdoors and enjoy nature. Meet real people and improve your social and conversational skills. So do yourself a favor and do something worthwhile with your time, too.
Second, live your own life to the fullest. Let other people do what they want without imposing your will upon them. Make sure that you will not be responsible for their problems or accept blame for their issues. Tell those who annoy or bother you to seek professional help and that they cannot find answers from you because you cannot read their minds or claim to know all the answers.
Third, find something else in common to do and share with others. Do your best to explore your life’s potential. If you are good at talking and “thinking outside the box”, be a counselor. Since you are too gullible, stick with the religious folks. They may be mostly nutters but at least they are harmless. You may be good in dealing with people in secluded places, such as hospitals, prisons, and asylums.
Fourth, know your personal boundaries. In other words, avoid those who are stupid and clueless. Depending on your patience and understanding, take care of your health and stress level. Know how to say “No” and mean it. Avoid meeting fugly people: They are your worst enemies. Beware of people who continue to take advantage of your kindness. They will go to prison or at least burn in hell.
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Topic #45: If you could go back in time and have a 5 minute conversation with yourself ten years ago, what would you say?
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