Thanks for the nice cleared up skies and sylphs in the afternoon. The morning was slight with chemtrails and then the whole day was a bunch of wispy clouds. My Flickr.com account has eleven photos from today. I took a few shots prior to attending morning mass and then a few more during the removal of the outdoor lighting.
Brat came over around 01:15PM (after I sent a text to both of them for a quick lunch). And I got angry again for his Chinese fiancee Twit for not showing up just for today. I was visibly shaking for another ‘disrespect’ on my family by her over and over again! The boy is letting her do whatever she wants; and in return he gets to get away with whatever he wants.
Instead he ‘defends’ her butt again by claiming she had to go ‘help’ her family again — but on our ‘new year’? I believe this is in retaliation to the fact that the guy doesn’t attend her family’s ‘new year’. The point is if she were interested in showing us she is meant for the guy, she could have come over for a few minutes and leave — and on this first day of the whole year.
Although both came over for the midnight celebration that didn’t count on my books for her not showing up for a few minutes during the DAYTIME too! I didn’t warm up snack foods or fry my egg rolls for nothing! I’m sorry but just because ‘Asians’ are grouped together in one category don’t mean we get along. As a matter of fact, there are LOTS of different DIALECTS and each ‘village’ has its own customs.
And by far the twosomes are quite into their own pleasures and their showing face to us family members doesn’t feel like they ‘care’ (to me). I see that I really shouldn’t be too upset or bothered with their affairs even though in the end the family will always get involved some way or another.
I’ve been told to get a life by Brat. I know now my interest is not for them or their kids but for me and mine. But I told the Brat I expect improvement from the both of them. I know Twit can’t change her mindset due to her coming over to America since 18 years old via Vietnam.
I know theirs is ‘kayak’ love and how convenient for the both of them. As a matter of fact she was the one courting the guy, who kept telling us she was crazy for calling him all the time after a breakup with another co-worker (a divorced Portuguese). Yes, the guy was her mentor at this technology work.
I think I said too much and I’m trying to laugh off the ‘free-love’ attitude by the younger generation. I do value my Filipino tradition. If those Chinese want to stick to the superstitions, oh the heck I’ll stick to mine. I will continue to blow steam until Brat takes a hint that being quiet and not saying anything means everything is perfect (or fine and dandy). No!
I’ve already heard horror stories from older folks about Filipinos (even White folks) marrying other Asians. Sometimes the relationship doesn’t work because certain stubborn, outdated thinkers are unable to adapt to the Westernize culture.
It’s really unfortunate that this good looking Brat picked on this country bumpkin out of love – yuch. I see this as an opportunity to live his life with a dumb one, which she is not. I wonder what is going on in Brats mind right now and how he would let the girl know. I guess I’ll have to wait just as she is waiting for the big day, if any.
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