Yeah, farggin’ off is the only way to beat down those don’t know any relationship a two way street. It’s too easy to blame one side when the other side is also a contributing factor. Call it the fine line between telling the hard, painful truth and interfering with the best of intentions by those who care too much to know when to stop. When you can feel the bad vibes and negativity coming off of anyone (bio-units, friends or relatives), it’s better to leave them to their misery and as we’ve learned from other good folks who have told us their horror stories – ignore them. Save your own energies for what you think is best and feel is right for you and your bio-units.
Each couple has bio-units units as you know well and it’s best not to meddle in the affairs of others no matter how, not right or wrong but rather, different and respect that difference with
OMG! I have a loser brother and a Twit sister-in-law, who come off sounding they know everything about people. And here I am being older than the twosome.
So a person who cheats means running off with someone else (other than the significant other) and having an affair. I think cheating means lying to each other about staying in an unhealthy relationship that would not get better in the first place ‘Trying to work out’ any differences and making up later with flowers and candies (for example) are symptoms for the denial of the truth that someone better is somewhere out there to fill in the void something(s) deficient in the current relationship.