You know the saying:
`Practice makes perfect`.
After a brief chat with both the girl and the boy, the girl will continue to IMPOSE her culture to strangers, not realizing that she is pissing off the VERY generous family of the boy, who is already having a hard time explaining SEVERAL TIMES to the stubborn one to CHANGE her mind-set!
The boy doesn’t get it: divorce her now before it’s too late. The UNHEALTHY conditions of their relationship from the beginning will be a long-term thorn and an early grave for the boy, obviously.
The heart of his mother knows! Oh, why does the mother grieve at her suffering son, who is being crucified for being OUTSPOKEN? The mother is dying slowly, knowing that all is not well with her baby boy!
Take the following Biblical passage. It is a clear clue as to why marriage is only an illusion and frankly marriage is merely practice for when the twin souls unite someday.
Marriage
1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry.[a]Footnotes:
1 Corinthians 7:1 Or “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.”
The boy still doesn’t get it. If he cannot get through to her, it’s hopeless! If he only listened to the wise elders, he wouldn’t be in such a pickle at this point in time. He did injustice to the girl by not being honest with her to seek a suitor that will understand HER culture, HER tradition and at the same time not hurt HER lifestyle.
`I made a vow to God!`
Whatever! Your cousin Jojo divorced and is still dating. Your cousin Jorel divorced his multiple wives and made lots of kids.
Think well, lad, before the children you hope to father entrap your lifestyle of bicycling and kayaking. Your passions in life will be replaced with changing diapers and you will never hear the end of a hormonally imbalancedwife, who will nag day and night and rag on you for the rest of your life.
If you think it’s bad now, just wait. You will find out what’s it like having children, who may one day rebel and in turn break your heart!
It is truly karma! But why wait? Bruhaha!
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