People are more dishonest and downright sneaky nowadays and long gone are the open doors and windows to greet both friends during the day and strangers in the night. There are many times from past experiences that allow for better understanding of how to best deal with individuals who lack of compassion towards those with less exposure to the darker aspects of human conditions. Why do people feel the need to act nice when they want something?
Common sense tells us we should be more understanding to the least of our brothers and sisters and forgive the wrongs done by them for they do not know what they are doing. These people darn well know what they are doing and all for the wrong reasons due to lack of moral ethics to treat others better and with dignity and lack of intelligence to show fortitude and forbearance in the face of confrontations or disputes.
Some choose to pull at one’s heart string by calling my cell phone yesterday and reporting a head on collision in a vehicle accident on Tuesday, walking miraculously from the scene and coughing from sounding sick per a business associate named Pete or by calling our house today and trying to deliver Christmas presents to our house after three months of holding these packages hostage per the sister (Malouse) of Paw.
These two real life dramas are either met with silence in no support for the nonsense of delaying a trust in faith or with anger in verbal retaliation by Paw to send back the presents to the givers, respectively. People who operate like these two are unbelievable. But their forgiveness is only when our memories fail us.
For the most part, people seem to behave nicely at first and smile behind a mask of indifference. Imperfections in people exist and fault finding plays as a common theme with my relatives. The most involved relatives in each other’s affairs are mostly the women.
Sometimes they get the in-laws involved because they themselves cannot resolve their problems within the family. I often wonder why they bother convincing others to contribute their time and money for efforts that do not always work to bring the relatives together.
For example, I do not understand why two registered nurses (Malouse and Maldeath) dumped old granny in the nursing home in December 2005. Old granny cannot get around much because the daughters either refuse to buy old granny a wheelchair (due to the place of ‘Mal-Low’ is too small) or to take care of her (due to the husbands are mean). My relatives should be honest and let us know exactly why they have taken that course of action after the fact.
Old Granny Lose does not belong in the nursing home because like most residents want some company and would cry almost every time someone comes over to visit. This is truly sad because I am powerless to have her live in a better place and have only my prayers for her happiness. My family and I don’t visit her anymore because it hurts to see old granny that way of playing dumb.
Basically ignoring people with bad attitudes seems to be an alternative. And that works fine for us living in the South Bay over the years of not really knowing these East Bay lifestyles. Since we live too far from them to travel such long and stressful distances, we no longer attend their parties either.
This saves us money from buying useless gifts that might end up either thrown away and never to be seen again or recycled from the hidden recesses of the closets for someone else’s party and heartache from knowing that, for whatever reasons being, still make a big deal for not visiting them in the first place. It’s nice to know they still send us invitations though.
Some people will never truly learn that eventually we mostly misunderstood people with nothing but positive outlooks in life will have learned their devious ways of being the wolf in sheep clothing’s and sucker punch them where the truth really counts.
The forms of punishment are always the truth. Nothing could beat the almighty truth of letting a piece of one’s mind be known straight forwarded and without restraint and if kicking their rear ends justify the means for a much needed awakening for taking too long to evolve towards a better good.
Oh, and will you all, for Pete’s sake, please grow up and learn to stop stepping all over each other to prove you are not different but no better than the rest of us? Come on!
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