This may sound shallow but I canot be friends with fugly people! That’s right! If friends are at least average, but have a great, even “street smart” personality, they could be my friends. However, if friends are merely narcisstic but beautiful, forget it. Those sort of people cannot be my friends. But if they are sincerely happy to be overbearing but still CAN laugh about many things in life, meaning having a light-hearted outlook in life, then they could be my friends.
So you see folks, it’s narrow-minded to try and explain how I decide who to be friends with if the person I happenstance to meet fear me at first glance. Perhaps, one could go further and define “friends” as either being just a good one for various activities versus a close one, which lasts a life-time, no matter how far the distance. Take for example, “my family”. I loosely label them as “my family” not to be weird since I’m not “married” into that family or related by bloodline but as a closer connection beyond friendship, say spiritually, somewhat like a platonic relationship. Get it? If not, too bad!
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Reference: http://dailypost.wordpress.com/2011/05/24/how-do-you-decide-who-to-be-friends-with/
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