“It’s Janet, Miss Janet, If you’re nasty!” ~Janet Jackson‘s album “Nasty“.
So why do people hook up with nasty, fugly people? Because they are mentally and emotionally incapacitated! Basically, it usually boils down to finances and fornication — both of which are forms of control with the former being more desperately needed and the latter being the supporting role for staying in any long-term relationship.
Everything else is denial. Face it! No one should be ashamed for messing up. If you happen to be destined to hook up with a nasty fugly, be proud that it’s only temporary. That’s why alcohol, drugs and smoking are done to help drown out the sorrow and pain. [I’m not advocating addiction (but blogging comes in at a close second)!]
Hopefully, no one will make any excuse or make a big deal for the errors of your ways. Perhaps, you could exercise more self-control in your money and of your urges. Or else you might make more babies that you cannot afford in your young/old age.
Ah, the traps of this world are many. Be sure to take off your rose/amber-colored glasses before making any rash decisions that will put others to shame. What about me? Again, you are nothing when other people disapprove. Quit hooking up with a nasty, fugly and take a more realistic observation that most people are plastic anyway!
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