It’s better to adopt and sponsor a relative back home from the Philippines.
Get to bond with your adoptive children while they are still young.
The older adoptive children grow up fast and become devils who grow horns.
This is what Luz told to me that night when her divorced nutter of a sister went knocking on our front door and probably for the last time. But I knew better. I heard horror stories about Filipinos who worked hard here in America and tried to be supportive with poorer relatives who want not just free cash from their sponsors’ hands but their WHOLE arms!
It’s not the same.
This is what Theresa D. told to me long ago. She is gifted and probably still works in the Accounts Payable department of my former employer. She knew my PERSONAL THOUGHTS about my interest in adopting. I cannot imagine trying to play a mother unit to virtual strangers.
So with the two above samples, I’m better off being single forever or at least keeping a companion who could cook and clean the place and yard or marry another single guy without children from former relationships or make at least one brat. Whatever! It’s God’s will!
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