A frustrated female: They will never change! And there is nothing you or I could do to change them and how they interact with people.
Now I understand this newest basic fact of life: People will never change! Never! Never! Never! This is especially true of those who continue to cling to their traditions! No wonder people — certain sensitive persons — go nuts: It’s because they are not used to being together at all times, not used to hugging, kissing and greeting each and every member of the in-laws and not used to speaking in different languages.
The loved ones will never understand due to differences, which will always be present, along with the misunderstandings, misconstruing and mistakes that cannot and will not simply go away over night. This is due to outright stubbornness to change and get along with those living in America!
I give up! Now I know that I could never go back or there anymore. It’s not going to change. It never has and never will change. After over two years, nothing changed. They will continue their trend of mistreatment, of being elitist and of forgetting where they came from — their former family units.
The only change is the mask they wear: fake smiles and plastic faces. This is just only for public to see and hear — all pretentious and pretty much pretending, that faking is only for acting. But in private, I suppose fighting almost everyday is just normal for some people, who learn to live with their differences. Go figure!
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