Tag: relationships

After Sunday mass, Maw specifically asked the girl to buy a container of spinach dip at Costco. What does the girl do? She told her husband to go pick up a container and delivery the request to his OLD family himself! If she were a good daughter-in-law, that request could have been processed by HER (good heart, if any) the following day on Monday.

I had to leave a message on her cellphone on Tuesday and told her to forget about it. Apparently, the boy continues to claim forgetting to purchase one for whatever reasons, such as being too busy and burned out at work. His work place is behind the Costco store; so I find this as no excuse to me.

Symbolically, this means he doesn’t care about his OLD family. And he is intentionally refusing to go out of his way make amends for the errors of his ways. It’s a known condition on his paternal side – vindictive when caught and stubborn through teeth and nails.

I see this also as a way of the girl to let us know that `get it yourself`, too. The point is the ungrateful twosome should just return the EXPENSIVE money gifts and call it even; so there is no power trip over who owes anyone. If the monetary ills are the MAIN reason for their attitudes, I don’t what else to interpret other than they are both fooling each other.

After taking a shower from doing yard work, I am recalling two people who are nasty to their mothers. They would point their right index fingers in front of their mother’s face. They would say:

`Don’t tell me what to do! I know what I’m doing!`

Of course, the shock and heartbreak of these two mother must be devastating. They knew their crazy children would never GROW UP or CHANGE for the better but instead choose a path solely for their own selfishness.

The first story was about Shill (my paternal, first cousin) many years ago. The incident was inside the garage of their home (now sold) in Union City, CA. The boy was trying to park the big white van inside the `right side` of garage. I was standing to the right of her mother. Both of us were watching the scene unfold from inside the `left side` of the garage. As the boy pulled the van forward, Shill was DIRECTLY in front of the van. She was motioning with her right hand for the boy to come forward so as to not HIT the wall behind her. This was when the mother yelled at her to get out from in FRONT the car. Then the girl looked in the direction of her mother; yelled back and pointed her right index finger in her mother’s face. The mother couldn’t talk back.

The second story was about the same boy, who was seated at the dining room table of his OLD family’s house. A discussion cannot be had with the rebellious boy, who REFUSES to accept responsibility for his failures in life. But instead he continues to blame his elderly parents. Many more wise words were shared by the old timers but he failed to listen well. His Paw was not participating and quite silent during the ordeal. His Maw was more vocal, a sign that (like most woman) cared enough to fight for the improvement of a lost soul. She said something to the boy and in return the boy raised his voice at his medically disabled Maw. He then pointed his finger in her face. He stormed out of the house like his paternal Uncle Dead once did during the transfer of Social Security funds from his hands to his sisters, Aunties Death and Louse.

The rebellious ones, much like the politically motivated liberals, are capable of shooting themselves in the foot and will in turn point their fingers at the guilty party, who are really innocent in the matter. These rebels are not radicals but nutballs. I wonder if there is a law against children who abuse their caretakers, guardians, foster parents, biological parents, etc.

People with ambition usually want fame and fortune. And name recognition goes along with the efforts, sometimes by hard work or free-loading via scams, such as donations of 501 (c) 3 – non-profit organization.

Now the three of us here won’t have any of that crap. It’s all fake, like veneer on sharp teeth and glossy lips of lies. Why won’t we play along by competing with other arrogant folks? We value our privacy.

Take Filipinos. They like to show off their accomplishments and ugly faces on social websites, such as Facebook.com. Then they add other idiots who have more crap to share about their privacy. Now the logic is there is nothing wrong and it’s their right, the freedom of speech and such.

I see their efforts as another way of proving their value in society. It’s foolish really. There are many others who don’t get credit for doing `good works` in the name of the Lord or Satan’s ego boosters of networking.

Once again, ego is defined by memory. And once dementia is there, no one will care and forget. The images on photos and videos do nothing but remind the viewers how temporary their fleshy bodies and names behind their ugly faces are not really appreciated.

It’s really a ruse and nothing short of gaseous hot air from dead spirits, really. So go ahead and post your names and show the world how important you are. Gather all your fellow family and friends and prove your worth. In my eyes, you are all wasting my time.

Earlier this evening, the nutball called and wanted to know how we were doing. Paw took the call momentarily but passed the phone to Maw, who berated her boy for attending Sunday mass with wrinkled pants and unshaven face.

During the futile phone call, the boy continued to go around the bush – dragging moi into the picture – and ended up telling his own Maw that he doesn’t trust her. This is one of many defense mechanism he uses to cover-up his failures in life.

First, he could have graduated from college and be proud of his OWN efforts. Instead, he now seeks acknowledgment from old timers who live SIMPLE lives for his successes without a college degree and for taking on hobbies that fulfill his own ego in the guise of happiness.

But Maw stuck to the main issue: Wear appropriate clothing to church or don’t attend at all. She mentioned that if a wife really cared about the husband, the wife would NOT left her husband been seen in public with pants straight from the hamper, blue ties not matching brown pants or undershirts not matching in color to the dress shirt. This is the second failure in his life.

You see folks: Insecure people refuse to take personal responsibilities and puts the blames on others.

Later that night from 09:00pm to 11:00pm, we watched a televised show `Everyone Loves Raymond`. One episode was `The Ride-Along`, which was originally aired on 02/23/1998. In this episode, Raymond’s mother scolds Robbie for endangering his younger brother during a robbery.

Right here, I saw how the overprotective mother would make such a fuss over her family. She of course is always misunderstood and hated for being outspoken. (By the way I am the one who HATES my relatives up in the East Bay, not Maw.)

The point is: Don’t jump to conclusion and assume that everyone will play with losers. Only the wise listens well and laugh. It takes one step at a time from humble beginnings to successful pride.