Flynn's Paws: My Thoughts, My Gripes

Tag: relationships

  • 20100423-Looking For

    Here is a quick and simple way to access if a significant other is worthy as a lifetime partner. The order in which the items appear is very important.

    1. Vision – She has to have a vision of what she wants and plans for her new mate.
    2. Thoughts – She has to be smart. Without intelligence, there is no action. This allows for the vision (refer 1.) to be made possible.
    3. Speech – She has to say what she means and means what she says. But she has to make sure she thinks first before opening up her clap trap.
    4. Heart – She has to have a good heart. But without intelligence and understanding (refer 2.) to cross-check her feelings, she may be fooling only herself and others, too.
    5. Stomach – She has to have a good appetite. Without eating, there is no energy. And the brain cannot think well either without sufficient nutrition. Stapled stomachs not acceptable.
    6. Guts – She has to have the guts to stand up for what she believes in. Without that `gut feeling`, she might as well let logic and planning ruin a spontaneous relationships.
    7. Sex – She has to have some sex drive. But too much sex means she doesn’t think about the consequences of birthing and raising children. Plus it means she’s a whore.

  • 20100423-No Use

    Maw had spoken to one of the staff during her hospital stay. It was a black lady. And the conversation went on about how the lady used to be very vocal, which according to her is typical of most black people. She realized that it’s not worth expressing herself and her opinions that loudly anymore because nothing gets done anyway.

    She said to Maw: `Let them fight`. And that is the truth. Look what happened to the Tea Baggers. They show up and the bills were passed. Look at what happened to any couple. They fight, complain to other members of the family, cover their sides of the story, and continue their stupid lives, laughing as if NOTHING happened.

    Frankly, I’m pissed at hearing couples with problems. As for the girl, she will continue to be stubborn and do her own things. As for the boy, he should find another woman, Joy, who is much shorter, thinner and sports bigger bosoms. Plus, she can speak our language, eat our food, and take care of the sick because she is a registered nurse! She is 33 years old and is having a hard time finding a man in her life. I wished the boy married this one instead of his first selection. What a waste! Everyone knows it. Sheesh.

  • 20100423-Nice Day

    The weather is beautiful. The sunshine is bright. The winds are cool enough for opened windows and fresh air. The skies are clear blue! And the atmosphere feels uplifted for the second day in a row. I wonder what happened? Hmmm.

    Anyway, Maw managed to eat breakfast downstairs and cook for lunch and dinner. Paw helped to prepare the food, wash and dry the dishes.. The parakeets are playing, first the girls and then the boys.

    I’m still looking for work and have entered the main land line (UNLISTED) for `real` temporary work to call in. So far all I’m getting are thugs on the cellphone, which I gave as reference to other thugs, if you know what I mean.

  • 20100422-Great Ideas

    The boy came over to visit his Maw. He had made lots of suggestions that would improve her health:

    • HEPA filter for her stuffy room upstairs.
    • Removal of acoustics.
    • Removal of all carpeting.
    • Opening of windows for fresh air daily.
    • Centralized filtered air.
    • Bland and healthier, non-Filipino foodstuff.

    WTF! Why doesn’t he just put her inside a bubble or at least buy her a gas mask? Technically, he should not hesitate to buy the wonderful equipment with the HARD-EARNED money by his generous family.

    This is what I mean by karma. That which was given `sort of freely` is not meant to be hoarded by him or by the girl, who wanted ALL of that dough put into a house that may not last a long time!

    He has failed yet another test. This would explain why the dying one is supposed to be an older soul. His soul is of Atlantian, which messed up the information and destroyed themselves. Wake up! You are not all that if you don’t get it!

  • 20100422-Home Now

    Maw is home from the hospital. She got new medicines, which I’ve familiarized myself with and will administer to her until she `fully` recovers. Paw is a great help too. But he got tired enough to take a nap. The boy has been notified via cellphone, on which I left a message and of which Paw called too. The parakeets are playing. The sun is shining. The upstairs is warm from the sun. And the skies are blue, too. Some clouds came and went. The wind blows nicely. The atmosphere feels amazingly `uplifted`. I wonder what happened. Hmmm.

  • 20100421-Weathery Ways

    The rain storm poured strongly! Paw and I had arrived at the parking lot to the hospital past 11:30pm. I had to drop him off so the clothes that Maw hoped to wear and go home in won’t get wet. Then I got out and got wet instead.

    That rain storm came and went. The clouds were still gray cloudy and then some white clouds covered the skies of some blue patches. Then after 05:00pm or so we wanted to load (into the trunk) the flower vase from Seniora Kathryn S. (an Italiano) from two days ago.

    We got wet again and I gripped Paw’s neck with my left fingers, digging into his flesh and causing him to laugh. The point was to keep him under the umbrella at all times so that I he won’t get sick and I won’t end up taking care of TWO sick people!

    Then en route towards home on south bound HWY 101, I was thinking too much about a `friend`. Lo and behold, that setting sun shimmered brightly as a golden orange ball of light. The rear view mirror of the Mercedes Benz E-430 automatically adjusts, dimming the brightness and makes the viewing easier on my eyes.

    At around 07:40am, the blessed sight continued from behind the clouds of yellow from its brightness (like yesterday evening). Only the lower-most portion of the sun was hidden by these clouds.

  • 20100421-Noticing Numbers

    Yesterday, the boy called my cellphone at 08:33pm. But I couldn’t answer because it’s illegal to talk on the cellphone while driving. We had exited from HWY 101 into Brokaw Rd. He then texted messaged me that he/she/it/they wanted to drop off something. I returned the calls and left messages via his cellphone and her land line.

    Today, the boy called our land line at 10:11am. He arrived at the hospital to be with his Maw for two hours. We didn’t get a chance to feed him at the Cafeteria downstairs because the crowd was TOO much between the hours of 12:00pm to 01:30pm.

    At 13:44pm, the test for an emergency had ended since 13:40pm. Paw and I were ordering our Entree meals at the Cafeteria at `Ground Level` when we heard the siren sounding off and the LED blue lights flashing on and off.

    After we had talked with Gloria S. (the payroll clerk of the place) and finished our meals, we walked Maw to the `Family Room` upstairs. We saw two EMT fire trucks from Mountain View. I took one photo of each truck and Maw’s left profile. Then we watched only five minutes of a Korean soap opera with English subtitles.

    En route to get some `tokens of appreciation` in the form of `puto` snacks for the nurses, we were following a small white car with the CA license plate ending in 933.

    At 09:22pm tonight, I was refreshing all my feeds and found the WM was `Updated 33 minutes ago`. Immediately after thinking about a pal (as usual and many times throughout the friggin’ past many SLONG days), I saw another feed about a gun shots at the crash site of the Polish president.

    There were many more double digit numbers — too numerous to remember, care or blog about.

  • 20100419-Practice Perfect

    You know the saying:

    `Practice makes perfect`.

    After a brief chat with both the girl and the boy, the girl will continue to IMPOSE her culture to strangers, not realizing that she is pissing off the VERY generous family of the boy, who is already having a hard time explaining SEVERAL TIMES to the stubborn one to CHANGE her mind-set!

    The boy doesn’t get it: divorce her now before it’s too late. The UNHEALTHY conditions of their relationship from the beginning will be a long-term thorn and an early grave for the boy, obviously.

    The heart of his mother knows! Oh, why does the mother grieve at her suffering son, who is being crucified for being OUTSPOKEN? The mother is dying slowly, knowing that all is not well with her baby boy!

    Take the following Biblical passage. It is a clear clue as to why marriage is only an illusion and frankly marriage is merely practice for when the twin souls unite someday.

    1 Corinthians 7

    Marriage

    1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry.[a]Footnotes:

    1 Corinthians 7:1 Or “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.”

    The boy still doesn’t get it. If he cannot get through to her, it’s hopeless! If he only listened to the wise elders, he wouldn’t be in such a pickle at this point in time. He did injustice to the girl by not being honest with her to seek a suitor that will understand HER culture, HER tradition and at the same time not hurt HER lifestyle.

    `I made a vow to God!`

    Whatever! Your cousin Jojo divorced and is still dating. Your cousin Jorel divorced his multiple wives and made lots of kids.

    Think well, lad, before the children you hope to father entrap your lifestyle of bicycling and kayaking. Your passions in life will be replaced with changing diapers and you will never hear the end of a hormonally imbalancedwife, who will nag day and night and rag on you for the rest of your life.

    If you think it’s bad now, just wait. You will find out what’s it like having children, who may one day rebel and in turn break your heart!

    It is truly karma! But why wait? Bruhaha!

  • 20100419-Easy Mark

    En route from the hospital towards home that night, we were listening to Dr. Laura on HOT TALK 560 am KSFO at around 08:30pm.

    The caller was paying a lease for $1,200.00 per month. She had put a deposit or so into the deal. I cannot remember the beginning of the story but I believe she lived with her brother, who was a felon or something like that. She was VERY nice to put up for long and cannot decide whether or not to move on with her life.

    Dr. Laura said the caller was an easy target. I know the feeling, SERIOUSLY.

  • 20100418-Three Couples

    Three couples (Rose and Fred, Ben and “Minh” and then Ben and Gloria) from our local church came by to visit Maw. Of course, Maw was the usual talker and was excited to see these `good folks`.

    No one really knows what is going on with the three of us until I decided to make the calls as a courtesy to our whereabouts. It’s good therapy for the sick and dying when some people show up as support.

    Come to think of it, relatives don’t seem to care. Only the couple I called came. I was thinking these creeps didn’t tell the other ingrates because no one else showed up. Sheesh!

    Honestly, Maw needed more rest than company. The boy already knew better than moi apparently. I cannot imagine kicking out nice people prematurely when the conversation was getting way too loud and rapid.

    I’m slow, really. I don’t get it.

  • 20100419-Wise Crackers

    While Fred and Rose were visiting Maw, Paw cracked a joke:

    `Even if you are the luckiest person in the world, you cannot win if you don’t play!`

    ~Paw (04/19/2010 03:36PM)

  • 20100419-Old Drawings

    Again, I am cleaning up old files, opened the safe, found a bulky, old-tattered, golden-colored folder and scanned the following pink and green colored construction papers.

    These were drawings by moi at the age of three years old. Maw asked me a series of questions and she wrote down my responses. You will notice one image contains the letters `D` and `B`. Right there shows how far and wide is my purpose, of which I am still not certain. Sheesh.