Tag: relationships

  • 20090912-Calmed His

    While attending morn mass on Maw’s bday, Brat was fidgety as usual for not liking crowds. I sent calm thoughus thru his heart chakra, stopping his restlessness.

  • 20090912-Dinner Joke

    Not Hi!

    Two co-workers happen along.

    Hi, Roger!

    I’m not `high`! Do I look `high`?

    The exchange went on a few more times while he looked down, walking as if dazed and looked up again with a blank look of feigned `highness`.


    Run Earthquake

    A Filipino wanted to `shake` up another boring time at work.

    So he slowly shook the table on one side of cubicle to a soft rattle, building up to a faster one. An older co-worker was sitting on the other side of the cubicle.

    He screams: `Earthquake! Run!`

    The lady screams hysterically with her arms in the arm, jumps from her chair and ran out of the building in fear as fast as she could

    He, of course, had to run after her to tell her it was only a joke.

    She was pissed!

  • 20090912-Only Call

    Well, only cuz ‘Jokester’ called (via the cellphone registered as ‘Gignat’ his sister) Maw for a Happy Birthday greeting tonight at 2128pm. At least we are NOT lost, stolen or forgotten. So if y’all are reading this, y’all know who has God’s blessings.

  • 20090912-Sister In-Stalk

    At 1503pm & from my bedroom window upstairs, saw Twit drive on MY drive to My road. Guess she can’t locate her husband. Reminds me of Linda, the divorced nutter

  • 20090912-Move On

    Okay, fine. I’ve read about someone going through a divorce. It’s as sad as a babbling `Brooke`. But for me, it’s just another phase in life to something new, a healthier relationship and probably a better looking husband.

    My questions to y’all:

    • Why would you people want to get married in the first place?
    • Are you people blind?
    • Why would anyone care for tax breaks as married couples?
    • Why would you involve your family, relatives and friends in your illusion of happily ever after when the future unknown of any marriage might end up as a divorce?
    • Why not live a single life forever and count your blessings of TRUE freedom from responsibilities of family life and friggin’ in-laws?

    I say, people by design are dogs and staying with one partner `forever and ever and ever until death do you part` is, well, boring, which is like contracting mono – a disease waiting to creepy up on your body. Monogamy is like eating the same friggin’ type of food everyday and 24/7! No wonder the people of Moses in Biblical times complained of eating Manna every friggin’ day!

    And that’s the point: There are those persons who prefer CHANGE! If anyone is going through a divorce, I feel for you: Damn! It’s like moi trying to seek legal REMEDY for nine slong years of waiting for nothing, a financial raping by TPTB and a death sentence on freedom to do whatever I wanted and more.

    Perhaps as Corrinne, my former manager of a department and a native Navajo, has summed up what each and everyone expects from prayers that go unanswered:

    I’m waiting for the day God blesses me with a child.

    Medically, she cannot, of course. She raised her one arms into the heavens in that fruitless hope when she found her more compatible second husband.

    So there you have it folks. To reach the impossible dream is just that – a dream. Wake up and smell the coffee of burning reality. Have an orgy or something for crying out loud!

    If you hate God, go for it. If you have a Plan B, C, D, etc. good luck. If you want to fight tooth and nail over a damn dog and other material nonsense during your divorce court hearing, you’re wasting your time.

    Count your blessings that your doomed from the beginning. Either way, just pick yourselves up, get justice and move on with your damn lives. Amen.

  • 20090912-Crying Child

    While blogging about what happened with the next door neighbor, Linda, a divorcee, Maw disappeared from our home! This happened about one hour ago and right after we came home from morning mass and breakfast.

    Paw went right upstairs to report Maw was missing! But I knew where Maw was and hurriedly got dressed in my T-shirt and light blue, baggy jean. Then I grabbed my digital camera in case I needed photographic evidence in case something happens between the neighbor next door and us.

    I ran downstairs, went to the garage and put my gardening slippers of beige color and ran out the door to the neighbor next door. But I peered into the door once and twice from the sidewalk  because I was afraid and wanted to go back home but decided to go back to the front opened door. I peered inside to hear at least Maw’s voice and then left because I didn’t hear anything.

    I told Paw, who was still dressed, to go and protect his wife in case something happens. He did but Maw came out with tears in her eyes. It so happened that Melinda cried too, knowing that her own divorced mother has problems. Even the two Filipino tenants who lost their house to foreclosure and will leave to the Philippines to retire shortly were there to hear the truth.

    The truth is that the divorced Visayan is lying. She lied about Maw seeing Billy with another woman. And we suspect that she lied to Juan about whatever and perhaps about the same sin of bearing false witness against a neighbor.

    The three people living in that house also heard about the F&&& Y&&& sign from Maw and claimed that they didn’t know about that sign being on the wall of the patio.

  • 20090912-Divorced Nutter

    After attending morning mass and after eating breakfast at Carrow’s, we came home around 10:25am. The next door neighbor, Linda, a divorcee had her garage door open. Maw saw the illegal Honduran inside the garage. Maw went to check our mailbox and mumbled under her breath to somewhat loud enough for Linda to hear:

    Don’t get our family involved.

    Then Linda comes out of her garage to check her mailbox in a feign attempt to make her presence know. We all went inside quickly but I saw her glaring in our direction. We said to her to GROW UP!

    Again, I don’t know what is up with Filipinos with Visayan descent. As for as I am aware, they are bitches. And they use other people to help resolve their martial problems or problems not related to anything important from the high weeds growing from the backyard of the neighbor behind her house to more Vietnamese moving across from her house.

    These kinds of people are dangerous. I will continue to make note of her activities in case something happens that is not right.

    To the San Jose Police Department (SJSU): If you hear anything about this particular Visayan making noise zbout her new husband and bearing false witness against us, her neighbors, I have photographic evidence of that F&&& Y*** sign for your review.

  • 20090910-Hand Making

    Maw told stories of her late family members and life experiences from her childhood from 2100pm to 2200pm.

    Her late father, my Lolo Juan, and his eldest son, my late uncle Senyong, were the main strength of the family with my late Lola Valing pulling her weight around the house and fields, too.

    • Lye soap was made with the ashes leftover from the flames used for cooking. The strings of pineapple were stripped by using the knife against the grain with one hand and pulling with the other end. The strings were used for cutting the lye soap into the normal, hand-sized bars for everyday use.
    • Dental hygienic tools were used. Toothbrushes were made from roughing up the edges of a nut with a knife. Toothpicks were used from the thorns growing from the branches of a pomelo tree. Flosses were made from the strings of pineapples (see above).
    • Vinegar was made from milking containers attached to the side of palm trees up in the hills from one of our `property`. Lola Juan would place those covered containers, wait for a period of time, look inside the container to see some sort of scum forming on the top or whatever and smell the fermentation of vinegar, which was used for cooking.
    • Cooking with laing (the leaves of a gabi plant) was deep fried by Lola Valing and dipped in soy sauce of the `Silver Swan` brand of course. The young root of a gabi plant was harvested and sliced into pieces for frying and eating by children.
    • Charcoal irons were made with takpan dahoon.

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  • 20090910-Granpaw Healer

    Maw told stories of her late family members and life experiences from her childhood from 2100pm to 2200pm.

    Lola Juan would heal people from his hometown in Kalayaan, Laguna, Philippines.

    • For toothaches, he would hammer a nail into the nara hardwood post holding up the old house, which has now been rebuilt. He would ask the patient if the pain is still there and he would hammer each time and stop until the patient said there is no more pain. Lola Meling, the late step-mother of my uncle Florene’s wife, Hely, was a candidate of this treatment.
    • For red eyes, he would scribble unknown symbols and/or words onto the paper of a cigarette after having emptying its contents of tobacco. He would mumble or whisper under his breathe while writing out these undecipherable cods. He then wrapped up the paper into a tiny scroll, placed the other end near the affected eye area and with the other end would blow his breath at least one time.
    • For dirty bottoms of naughty children who sat and played outdoors in the forest, he would treat the sores with salt, which stung the kids to screaming in pain. Then he would place the children on his lap with their bottom skyward and proceeded to apply hot compress with a cloth that was heated up over the open flames of the pit fire, which is used for cooking food, too.
    • For rashes on the cheeks of people, he would spit on their faces. I picked up a thought that he chewed something medicinal into his mouth prior to spitting a spray of healing solution onto the affected areas of the faces of his patients.

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  • 20090909-Less First

    For Tonight’s Speech in President Barack Obama’s address to a joint session of Congress regarding details to his health care plan, I would like to suggest that Barry should avoid the usage of the `first person`, such as `I` or `me`.

    I would like to remind Barry that it’s not about him or his worldview. I know because as a blogger, using the first person is much EASIER to express my thoughts but the messages herein by examples ALONE do fall on DEAF ears. (Read Flynn’s comments below for further examples).

    His decisions (and via moi and pals) should not go against the flow of the wishes by the bottom feeders. The majority rules and unfortunately, the needs of the few do NOT outweigh the needs of those who prefer to stay with their current health care insurance SCAM.

    Going forward, and as part of your public speech improvement and for the sake of making your leadership worth something before you, my dear Barry, get canned for ABUSE OF POWER, please avoid impressing people with your rhetoric. Your listeners are not stupid. They just go along for the ride but they know when to stop if the smell or most especially the sound doesn’t jive.

    [Flynn’s comments: Trust me Maw, the wise one, has advised STRANGERS who present themselves suddenly during life changing events. Some do NOT follow or take head and fall from grace, suffering the consequences, but happily so that they are oblivious to their pains and those pains of others affected by their decisions. Most, however, DO follow and are blessed. And they look back, never returning to visit her or calling her for updates on their progress ever again.]

  • 20090907-Divorced Nutter

    This morning Maw saw from her bedroom window upstairs an offensive sign from down below. The sign was in black ink with the words `F888 Y88` on white paper, which was securely placed with masking tape along the perimeter on the outside of the neighbor’s make-shift kitchen wall. I took a 16x zoomed photo shot of the sign and a normal photo shot of their ugly patio.

    The next door homeowner, Linda, a divorcee, is capable of using people and lying, not just like her first husband, Billy, but to Juan M. her second husband, who is an illegal alien from Honduras. He and his mother live with Linda.

    To the SJPD: As far as I would assume, that offensive sign was in retaliation, an sign of ANGER. A couple of weeks ago and late into the night around 2200pm-2300pm, Paw saw four SJPD patrol cars parked in front of our HOME with one parked in the driveway of the divorced nutter next door to us.

    Paw didn’t inquire that night with the officers and we would never know why they were present in our neighborhood. Again, I would assume there was another domestic dispute in which Linda is playing the victim AND using other people to get what she wants.

    Tonight, Maw called her to remove the offensive sign; so Linda’s grown children won’t see what happened. The sign is still taped to the outdoor patio wall. I believe Juan or one of his marijuana-smoking compadres taped that offensive sign.

    What is surprising is the Linda kept inquiring about moi! I know I’m beautiful! But she wanted to know my whereabouts and if I date and how we knew about the offensive sign. Maw asked the divorced nutter if she is jealous of moi. Imagine! Of course Maw protected moi.

    Are you jealous of my daughter? That is none of your business. We cleaned the room upstairs and saw the offensive graffiti. I don’t believe you respect me as your neighbor otherwise you would have taken down the sign. From now on I don’t want to hear your problems. Please don’t get my family involved in your marital affairs. You came to our home uninvited. I don’t ever you come to our home anymore.

    As of tonight and going forward, we will no longer communicate with Linda but pray for her peace of mind and heart.

  • 20090906-Much Cooler

    That whole day was wonderfully beautiful of sunny, clear blue skies and VERY cool winds blowing. We stayed mostly indoors that day and the day before that same type of day – much cooler!

    With her old, broken broomstick handle, Maw chased two squirrels, who were digging around in her potted plants of un-blooming orchids. Paw cleaned out the birdbath. The parakeets stayed mostly indoors because it was too cool for them to stay comfortably outdoors.