Flynn's Paws: My Thoughts, My Gripes

Tag: relationships

  • 20091010-Sensitive Soul

    Early this morning, Maw scolded Bugsy for chasing Pimon, the old timer. Bugsy, the sensitive one, sulked inside the cage and wouldn’t come out to play. So Maw had to talk him out of his time alone. But it took a few tries with Bugsy turning his back to Maw each time. Bugsy appears to understand. And my parents and I were wondering if he had the spirit of a person.

    Then Paw started telling a story about a pati-anak, a monster baby, which made the sound `Oh-wah! Oh-wah!`. He believes he might have seen a pati-anak in the form of a big parrot, which we thought might be a macaw, a cockatrice or a cockatoo.

    I don’t know which version Paw remembered but that sound was made either when his brother, `Gigolo`, was born or during a miscarriage. When there was lots of blood during a birthing the pati-anak would sound its call. I say it’s a vampire of some sort.

  • 20091009-Divorced Nutter

    At 18:11am, the divorced nutter next door rang the doorbell. Paw answered. She wanted to know if she owes Paw anything for the borrowing of his wheelbarrow by Juan earlier this morning.

    Paw said to her that she should solve her own problems. Her suspicious mind imagined that Juan was here in our house. She said to Paw that Juan won’t be coming home. We believe that she screamed at him after realizing that he borrowed our wheelbarrow.

    Upon hearing that word `mad`, Maw started hollering that it’s okay and don’t bother. But the divorced nutter was about to step into the door when Maw got up and hurriedly started towards the front door.

    We were praying the rosary at the time.

    Maw started saying in her loud voice why was she being jealous of `my daughter` and why she had put up that offensive sign. The divorced nutter of course denied ever putting up F&&& Y***, claimed that it has been there a long time and told Maw that Juan is a liar.

    This pathological liar already contradicted herself when she told Maw over the phone call earlier last month that she doesn’t go in the backyard and never noticed the offensive sign ever being up there in the first place.

    Maw had to shoo the pest away with her hands as Linda tried to plead and convince Maw that she is innocent of any misdeed, that she should believe her. The iron door was slammed not once but twice.

    Both Maw and Paw had to slam the door not once but twice. I of course stayed silent in the background and had to get up from my sitting position at the dining room table and go to the front window and peer outdoors to make sure she doesn’t ding my car.

    This is how to deal with nutballs: STOP IT! I DON’T WANT TO HEAR IT ANYMORE! GO AWAY!

  • 20091006-Toxic Environment

    Long ago, Nazir $h@k**r my hiring manager told me:

    They don’t need to know.

    As mentioned in my previous blog entries I didn’t have anywhere to go and I needed to keep my job. I knew he REALLY likes me because he hired me without a second interview through the AppleOne Employment Agency (in Santa Clara, CA, across from the Great America Park). I wasn’t even working there for more than six month when he, like so many other guys I’ve met via online and in person, ruined my life.

    Plus, according to some rumors, he wasn’t home as much and was going through a divorce with his Filipino wife, whom my parents and I saw during an company outing at Six Flags (Marine World USA) in Vallejo, CA. While waiting for the tram to pick us us, he had other children. One was a taller boy with a peculiar copper-colored skin. He brought that boy over the day after our `date`. He kept petting the boy on the head lovingly.

    I believe there are many more women out there that can NOT report what happened at the workplace. I believe what David Letterman did to those YOUNG women showed how he abused his power of authority and used the women as dirty bags, knowing they would NOT and can NOT report his obvious misogynist activities.

    As far as David Letterman is concerned, CBS should fire him immediately. His comments about Sarah Palin and her family is unwarranted. I cannot believe the audience would clap and laugh at his attempt to apologize. People like him should be fired.

  • 20091004-Blue Night

    It was a very blue moon out that night. Maybe one time in my life, I would like to stay up all night and gaze up at the stars while the moon shines brightly and fall asleep. Only a brief glance of a bright blue shine filtering through the double-paned window against the white walls gave me some light in the night.

    Except in this lifetime, that night, I would hear an old lady holler at the soulless old man for defending Obama. Androids like him do NOT have the concept of right from wrong. His bloodline would continue to deny being wrong done and play innocent of his harmful words. He is capable of letting people down and not apologizing, too.

  • 20091005-Reciting Rosary

    Ever since Maw decided to avoid Paw, we have been saying the rosary upstairs in her room at night. The rosary is brown in color, slightly rough but with time will be smooth and somewhat scented and made from rose petals, which may have been the ones we gave to Nati and her friends the other time we visited her and her brother, who had a mild stroke.

    And so that is my destiny: to support a fragile soul, who continues to cry after our prayers.

  • 20091006-Not Attending

    I know why my son doesn’t attend mass with us. It’s because he is embarrassed to be seen with a wife who is NOT Catholic. That’s why he makes excuses to go kayaking over the weekend. He doesn’t want the mostly Filipino parishioners and my friends to see the girl not participate in the Eucharist.

    A mother’s sad words have been heard. She is still connected to the boy and she knows this is true in her heart. But what can a mother do? Nothing but pray and hope that one day her daughter-in-law would believe in `God`. However, she no longer prays for anyone, realizing `IT IS GOD’s WILL!`

  • 20091005-She Said

    We are still a family. It is just I have NOTHING to do with him!

    So it is with so many other awakened women, whose role is supposed to be the loving mother and understanding wife. She did NOT realize that her husband had a genetic pre-disposition of VERY limited cognitive ability to understand the needs of the family emotionally. Physically he was there, a figure-head but as a father and husband, he failed to support, not so much financially, but provide any experience worth remembering.

  • 20091005-Heater On

    Well, Maw and I are eating upstairs while the windows are open to burn off the smell of gas from the heating furnace. Again, this is another example where the old man does whatever he wants without consideration for others. Instead of doing this activity during the daytime when the air is warmer, he chose to inconvenience us during the night and when it’s COLD.

    So girls, if you really want to get married, you are idiots!

  • 20091005-Chatting Cousin

    Cousin Yesha chatted with Maw over the microphone from 09:11am to 11:49am via Yahoo! Messenger this morning. We saw her over the webcam, which we do NOT own because a couple of ungrateful IT personnels do NOT have time to help us install one! We saw how FAT she was the other time but looks less fat this time.

    The story started out with our old town being underwater and Auntie Aida lost with other evacuees. The cemetery of the town is flooded. It is near a hillside and faces a busy street. I remember (back in 1996) the jeep-nees honking their horns for anyone on the road to watch out for oncoming traffic. Muslides were everywhere.

    Then the story went onto people suffering, looting and fighting. A person befriended her and stayed over her apartment for awhile. The friend claimed to be someone training to become a nun. For all she knows, 3,000 pesos were stolen. She didn’t know that thief brought her out to dinner one time with her own stolen money!

    Then the usual hard luck story went on to how she cannot work because the water is up to her waist or neck and how she cried, wading in that dirty water. She sniffled while talking with her BIG headphones and microphone attached. I think she got a cold from the storm. Bottom-line: She usually needs money, which Maw will send to her.

    Why is it that people come to us for money? Karma: Either given freely and mostly without asking; for it’s shameful in the first place to ask for hand-outs. However, begging is meant for survival. Gee. I could use some money because I want to move out and take Maw and the parakeets with me. Paw can stay and take care of the plants for all we care.

    But since TPTB and its tentacles continue to deceive moi, God has answered my ANGRY PRAYERS. Acts of natural phenom in the form of earthquakes, tsunamis and tropical storms have been harvesting people for being greedy, eating more than their fair share from the backs of those people who were taken advantaged of. You know who I’m talking about, Pete.

    When people divorce their feelings from spooks and separate their sentiments from the past hurts, both Maw and Yesha Maw have learned to never look back and count their blessings They will have moved on with their lives, except Maw is still married to the stubborn one while Yesha has divorced William her first husband.

    As a matter of fact, Yesha’s son, Pee-Wee, moved out with the wife and newborn son, William, who looks like me as a infant – an obvious frown face and wide islander head. She is much happier that the boy left and is losing weight, too, from not cooking for more than herself.

  • 20091005-Harvesting Minds

    Yesterday, Paw defended Obama. He embarrassed himself in front of Nati and her brother (who brought over a rosary made out of our rose petals) by interjecting that:

    He is trying his best.

    The people he was trying to convince do NOT like Obama and are former, LICENSED professionals. They are not dummies. This is the second time that he showed his thick skin, not realizing that his antagonism towards white folks (and probably during his years as a subordinate to white commanding officers in the Navy) has been expressed through his speech and wrong choice of word.

    He said he was sorry last night. But that didn’t work. Maw found her peace upstairs, away from the trigger of a man who has no concept of balancing the conversation with intelligent debates. Only he continues to take one side no matter how much information to the contrary has been spewed by mainstream media, which I hate because of their deceit and control of truthful information.

    He said he was sorry this afternoon. But Maw had enough of fakers. It’s not the sign of old age. It’s an accumulation and realization that unhealthy relationships MUST be removed. That is why guys don’t care. That is why women go nuts. The roles of men and women continue to be opposite. One person is stubborn. One person is forgiving.

    There is no hope but move on out.

  • 20091002-Maw’s Dream

    Usually around 06:45am, Paw would come upstairs to awaken us, giving Maw (what I personally feel is a `fake`) kiss on her cheek as instructed by moi during a mock, marriage therapy session earlier this year. Sheesh.

    Anyway, Maw awoke around midnight (a few minutes ago) and told me the dream she had that morning upon by awoken by Paw (see paragraph above).

    She dreamt of South Asian Indians. She was watching them. Most were women. The women were keeping the skins, such as pomelo and kalamansi (a Filipino word for a type of small lemon). She asked them what they were doing. They replied that she could eat the skin (and perhaps the inside fleshy part attached to the skin, too).

    She saw them prayer and working and going about their business for the day. She saw a man and woman praying. The man was behind the woman. Both held their hands together in front and near their faces (as approximated by the gesture presented by Maw and not over the heart as normally seen by what I’ve read online). They were both looking skyward.

    That dream was nice compared to other dreams that Maw told to moi.

    I interpreted her dream as a reminder to ingest more acidic food and liquid. I motioned a drinking gesture with my hand and mentioned that she might need more orange juice and reminded her if she took her blood sugar level, which she forgot prior to awaking up to tell me her dream. The level was within normal range, by the way

  • 20091001-Divorced Nutter

    Well, her Honda CR-V was not parked on the left-hand side of the drive-way. We assumed she went to work; so the first house won’t foreclose. The second one in Merced, CA already is gone.

    All three sisters appear to be nutters. The eldest bawled over the phone to Maw in the morning and the youngest called for the paramedics for the poor soul’s pick-up in the evening. Both occurred a couple of nights ago.

    The middle sister fought with the youngest sister in the van while traveling to the Philippines long ago and another night this year when both were struggling on the floor of a house. The husband of the youngest sister had to call the police. That is how the middle sister got a police record.

    The reason for the medical pick-up was because I was the last straw. The first three females (her own daughter and her two nieces from the sisters, of course) were accused of having an affair with her second husband. Those three people are MINORS; while I’m an ugly, middle-aged, old fart! Maw would defend my brother and me to her death, by the way.

    That is why the youngest sister called for help after Maw called her over the phone that same night about what her middle sister, the divorced nutter, is capable of doing: either killing people (like me) in a jealous rage over something that we had no knowledge or herself. The sisters KNEW about that offensive sign yet chose not to report her to the police or submit her to the hospital.

    That is why when someone is imagining suspicious activity from other people – that in and of itself does NOT pose any danger. But when the accuser starts ranting and raving in public, nay, to complete strangers or to family members about imaginary threats or being harmed in any way, shape or form, they are NUTTERS!

    I wonder about a dedicated blogger and his encounters with extraterrestrials, dark masters and CIA agents from OLD articles floating around on the internet and if the divorce really occurred because of some delusional or paranoia incident. I guess I will never know – (wink, wink).

    I hope Obama’s health care insurance reform bill helps those people with mental and emotional problems. But I feel science could explain that medical problems ARE predominately genetic, which can NOT be helped, or environmental, like bad water and food or accidents, like dents and dings to the noggin.