Tag: relationships

  • 20090807-Never Enough

    Maw, the wise one, tells Brat that she doesn’t force but suggest to make others think well. Say to the point, rather loudly w/ EMO style. Receipient gets hurt..

  • 20090723-More Spooks

    Saw call from cousin JoJo on 07/23 @ 1147am (area code 510). Asked Maw for cellphone #, who never called back. Recruiter still raising capital from relatives…

  • 20090804-Not Inspired

    Why do you think I refuse to get married? To avoid rearing ungrateful brats, dealing w/ in-laws, fussing over house chores or yardwork. Life’s freedom w/o nags.

  • 20090731-Divorced Nutter

    [Flynn’s comment: The following blog entry is to make sure the story jives.]

    At around 2100pm, the next door neighbor, Linda, a divorcee, called twice asking for my whereabouts. Paw answered first: `She is not home.` A few minutes later, Maw answered, screaming twice into the receiver: `Hello! Hello!` Linda asked where am I, when did I leave and when will I come back. Each time Maw told her: `I don’t know`.

    Linda wanted me to drive her around. Maw didn’t bother asking why. Maw and I suspected that Linda wanted to use me to drive around, look for her missing second husband around the neighbor and be Linda’s a star witness to her martial problems.

    Maw and I want nothing to do with her or get involved with her and her problems. We will have to stop her from bothering us. It’s not to our safety to get involved with someone who is capable of destroying the life of her first husband, Billy, who no longer lives with her after getting a divorce payout.

    Long ago on that fine, sunny day, we broke up a fight between Linda and Billy, who were both already outdoors. The fight was loud enough for the Chinese neighbors across from them to hear. Billy reported to us that she won’t stop flapping her lips, berated him EVERYDAY and broke dishes and furniture while they were living in the apartment together and later heard that Linda called the SJPD, which came over an arrested to poor guy over some domestic violence next door.

    It appeared that Billy couldn’t stand her mouth and ran her face into the bathroom sink. According to Linda’s own siblings, Linda was already a problem child from the beginning since living in the Philippines. Linda would not listen to her OWN sisters, Aida and Minda, who lives off of L^ndy Rd. here.

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  • 20090801-Divorced Nutter

    [Flynn’s comment: The following blog entry is to make sure the story jives.]

    Long ago, the next door neighbor, Linda, a divorcee, told her ex-husband Billy that Maw saw Billy with another woman. After we broke up the fight on that one sunny day, Maw answered Billy’s inquiry, which she replied was a FALSE ALLEGATION! From then on, we knew how dangerous Linda was and we refuse to get involved with her marital problems.

    Linda, like most Filipinos who are of Visayan descent, are capable of using other people to help solve life’s problem, especially when a Visayan woman is scorned by her husband. I believe their very beautiful physical attribute and intelligence with accounting, coupled with the blood of mixed ancestry in passionate affairs is too much for these women to handle on their own.

    So in order to overcome their shortcomings in life and deal with their emotional roller coaster, Linda will and have used others in the past. In another case, Ching, who is also a Filipino of Visayan descent, called Maw long ago about her marital problems with Gigolo, her first husband. Ching was going through a divorce with Gigolo and wanted Paw to go over to the house of Bitter, Gigolo’s second wife, and beat Gigolo up for cheating on Ching.

    But of course, Paw was wise not to get involved with her marital problems and ruin a fine relationship with his younger brother, Gigolo. Bottom-line: It would NOT do anyone good to get in between a domestic dispute and receive the blunt end force of the blame. For you see, both sides will continue to defend themselves from the other offending party. Plus, the SJSD said most domestic disputes are VIOLENT and some die as a result.

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  • 20090729-Divorced Nutter

    [Flynn’s comment: The following blog entry is to make sure the story jives.]

    That afternoon, the next door neighbor, Linda, a divorcee, came over and gave Maw a handful of small eggplants. Linda called Maw earlier about Juan. Maw scared Linda for living with a mother-in-law and her illegal alien, Juan, FOREVER! But Linda claims she loves Juan for being nice enough to bring her lunch everyday the place where Linda works, `O^tr#@ch`. Linda told how Juan was VERY nice for inviting Linda for a quick getaway in Hawaii.

    Of course, Maw, the wise one, knew that Juan (like most ILLEGAL aliens) would do everything to win the heart of an already emotionally distraught woman going through a divorce. In Maw’s mind, what would an ILLEGAL alien want with a divorcee who already has two teen-aged children from Billy? The answer was obvious: Juan wanted Linda to sign a petition for him to become an American citizen.

    Since Juan is still an ILLEGAL alien, Linda is responsible for anything and everything surrounding this man and maybe his mother and his relatives. Bottom-line: For any America citizen who wishes to harbor ILLEGAL aliens, you are LEGALLY and FINANCIAL responsible for their `visit`.

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  • 20090730-Divorced Nutter

    [Flynn’s comment: The following blog entry is to make sure the story jives.]

    At around 2100pm that night, the next door neighbor, Linda, a divorcee, called Maw about her second husband Juan, who is an illegal immigrant from Honduras. Linda wanted to know the whereabouts of her missing husband. Linda inquired of Maw if I looked out the window upstairs from which ever window to my bedroom that Linda assumed and downstairs to see if I have seen Juan. Maw told her we do NOT waste time snooping at neighbors that we don’t care to get involved.

    Linda further went into the conversation of my activities: if Maw is controlling my ins and outs – if I dated – and if she could learn how to investigate the background of the guys, whom I’ve dated in the past. Maw told Linda that she has nothing to do with me or my decisions in life and refused to allow Linda to learn how to operate the computer and find out more about Juan and his background (due to some sort of `Privacy Act`).

    Linda then claimed that Juan would appear and reappear out of nowhere and somewhere inside the house. Linda said Juan would sometimes and suddenly open the window to their bedroom because he sleep walks. Linda heard her mother-in-law and Juan giggling together. Linda mentioned how a pair of pants would suddenly disappear.

    Of course, Maw, the wise one, would throw the problems back at Linda, asking questions to make Linda come up with answers that really doesn’t make sense. Maw assured Linda that maybe the husband is hiding in the closet or was tucked low beside or under the bed; that the mother-in-law and son are teasing her for being so stupid and that her mother-in-law may have been cleaning up after her son.

    Linda was also scolded severely by Maw, who asked Linda if she wanted to live with her mother-in-law AND Juan, who doesn’t have an income and has a disability. For you see [pun here], Juan is blind in one eye. Maw scared Linda about what would happen if Juan went blind in the other eye and if Linda would be responsible for feeding TWO people for free FOREVER.

    After a few minutes, Linda rang the doorbell. Maw instructed me to hide upstairs. Maw saw terror in Linda’s eyes. Maw told Linda that the devil is possessing her because Linda allowed FEAR to come inside of her. Then Maw gave Linda holy water and told her to sprinkle some holy water on their bed, Juan’s pillow and on Juan, too. Linda had to ask which prayers to say on her visit tomorrow at Our Lady of Peace in Santa Clara, CA.

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  • 20090729-Don’t Meddling

    When kids grow up, move out & have own family. Per Filipino stories, parents love kids & do as much as they could but since in-laws exists, limits closeness, eh

  • 20090728-Androids Exists

    ‘You have a cold heart!’ After morn mass per Senora Josie to Paw, who shows no emotions or appreciation of others & takes care of self more than own wife. Slow.

  • 20090724-Pieces Picked

    Bruce Jenner to Kardashian: ‘I’ll pick up the pieces.’ Nutters arising from divorces are like shards of broken clay pot, imperfect & beyond repair, not the same

  • 20090723-Daily Diary

    Sunny, clear blue skies and pics of sylphs! Blew leaves, did laundry, enjoyed cooler day. Paw helped fold towels. Maw repaired edges of towels today and yday with home-made bias tape from left over materials.

    Linda called Maw about her second husband, Juan letting his brother and nephew watch TV in her MASTER bedroom! Luz the youngest sister of Linda returned Maw’s call: gave up telling her stubborn sister what to do about her relationship problems.

  • 20081228-White Candles

    Filipinos: White candles symbolize life and are used in marriages.
    Chinese: White candles symbolize death and are used in funerals.

    The couple did not light the Unity Candle. The girl is a Buddhist. The boy is a Catholic. Instead, their mothers lighted their candles without fully understanding the plan to this event. The looks on both their faces were total confusion but mostly disdain.