Da Squirrel is trying to be supportive to his OWN family by suggesting to plant privacy plants/shrubs/wall to keep us from seeing the nosy neighbor. But Mom defended Dad because it’s harder for him to maintain that garden/yard in his old age.
The boy has his own special way of helping others, which is seldom. He has good ideas/sound judgement but doesn’t lift a finger, like helping to warm up dinner/setting the table/whatever. When it comes to family drama, he’s sensitive. He doesn’t like stress in himself/others. He’s in denial that he’s trouble at his home-front.
As for me, I’m trouble incarnate. For whatever reason, these “numb-skulls full of mush” are playing/participating in my troubles. I really don’t mean to get my family involved. But I see how, once again, “chaos” (or as he texted me earlier this evening the words “family drama”) reared its fugly head and attempted to “renew” our family connectivity, which was never lost but merely quieter/more distant due to “business” and “tiredness” or whatever.
Through Mom’s sobbing, she’s hoping the boy would respond appropriately. Well, she pushed his button again by saying that he is no help. I can’t remember exactly but I responded loudly, “Whoa”!
Anyway, my family is correct. I should deal with my doppelganger, not hide from her, confront her, and keep the old timers from stressing out. Perhaps, I should exercise my 2nd Amendment right and let’s see what happens, eh?
I thank Mama Mary/Lawd Gawd for guiding Mom, who has decided that enough is enough and that Loca Lolita can do whatever she wants – scream, mumble, curse, cuss, whatever. Surely, the sheriff can do anything with this sort of nuances because being annoying is not criminal.
Tonight, I came home from choir practice around 2115. At around 2025, Da Squirrel wanted to leave early. But upon the presence/sight of my parents, who normally bids the boy farewell, Loca Lolita started saying aloud: “Bullshit! Bullshit! Bullshit!”
So Mom started hollering after her and the boy had to pull the two elderly ones back inside the home. From ADT video footage that we reviewed, the nutter continued to fumble with the garden hose and water her plants nearest our adjacent property line.
She then departed via the maroon dodge Caravan at around 2042 and then arrived at around 2105. She fumbled with the garden hose again. But luckily, her garage door was closed. I could tell there was some sort of “disturbance” because of the garage light turning off and on, which I could see through the arch-shaped windows atop the garage door.
So, Da Squirrel is correct. Mom should NOT be stressed. I guess it’s up to me to take care of everyone. Perhaps, I should “bite the bullet” with white-knuckling clenched fists of frustration and let’s see what happens. Usually, I’ll let fate/destiny/Lawd Gawd take care of the details.
To y’all: I feel like I’m the one at fault for causing so much trouble. I’m sorry. I’ll go away now. Goodbye cruel world!
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